8-8-2012 Wednesday
買了飲品給學生，讓他放鬆一下，他今天很壓力，平時可以做到的，今天卻無法專注。他是位中學生，如果沒有記錯他現在應該是在中四。
Just now I bought a drink for my student, he was just too pressure and can't play the music in the class, keep on out of focus, while he previously did quite well. He is secondary school student, if not mistaken, he is studying form 4 now.
他學了海幾個月的西洋鼓課程，學得不錯，他好學和很盡力去完成每個學習，努力成爲大家認同的“好”學生。只有一點，他無法克服的- 恐懼，從第一天開始到現在都是如此，從他肢體語言封鎖的肩膀就可以輕易辨認出來。
For so many months he had learn drumming with me, he did his best to be a good student, struggle to be perfect and recognized good. There are something he just can't overcome, that's fear, from day one until now, I can just knowing it by his gesture, "locking" shoulder.
我今天和他談了很多，當然平時也有談很多，只是今天談了很多和音樂無關的事物。他透露說他的童年是被管教得很嚴厲，他和阿姨，他其中一個小學的老師住在一起，經過一番的訓練，他成爲一個好人，聽話的人，卻有個缺點，他十分害怕“犯錯”，因爲會被罵，所以他嘗試把每個事情規規矩矩地做好。
Today I talked a lots with him, i mean something that not really related to the music. From his words, I know that he have a very disciplined and strict family background, he stay with his aunt and his aunt is his primary school teacher as well. He was train to be good person, obedient student, just he very very scare making something wrong, scare to be scold, try to make everything perfect, in order.
完美主義讓一個人嚮往完美，追求自己做得更好是無可否認的好事，但一旦過於追求完美的成果的話，大事情中的小事情縂無法完成，然而人生學習路上有很多東西是不能馬上有領悟和掌握的，在音樂學習和表演也一樣。
Perfectionism is good as a aim in life but the situation would be getting worst while someone over care the result. It's the same, in music learning and performing.
音樂是一種管道，讓你輕鬆快樂的，也能讓其他人感受到和自己一樣的感受，也可說是一種感覺、感情、心情、夢想等的分享，如果我們把這幾項元素拿掉，音樂就喪失了本意，一個正確的態度來學習、欣賞音樂不會讓你覺得壓力和消極的。
Music is something that make yourself joy, happy and then influence others to feel the same, it's a kind of sharing, music will become meaningless when these elements taking out, the proper attitude toward music won't make you feel more stress and upset.
一個音樂人如何演奏他的音樂也可以反映他的人生觀，音樂人在演奏時候是盡自己能力專注地把握當下的演奏，但他們不會太在意之前做過的“錯誤”而導致自己無法接下去彈奏，這也並不表示他們在演奏時候不追求完美。
How one playing the music can be a reflect how they play their role in life, the good musician doing their best to focus the present moment when they is play something, they don't really care what mistaken they did previously, and they won't spoil the rest of the song because of the mistaken, while they still chasing for perfect performance.
我時常告訴學生們，音樂所帶給自己的快樂是學習音樂的最主要的因素。你欣賞音樂的程度會斷定該音樂會給你帶來的多少的快樂，不是音在樂的考試等級和高難級的技巧上。快樂讓你的人生有意義，但等級技巧本身不會。正確的音樂心態讓你積極前進，讓你快樂，不會造成壓力。
The enjoyment of the music will be the first thing to be concern in the music learning, I always tell this to my students. How deep is your appreciation toward music will determine how much enjoyment you get in music, it's actually not about the how high the grade and how hard is the technique. Joy make your life meaningful, but not grade and technique, Proper attitude toward music make your move forward and help you stay positive and bring happiness to your life, but not stress.
音樂，自由的靈魂，大愛和愛。
Music, for the free world, for the peace and love.
The shipment just arrive today, I bought 10 pepper spray for family and friends, according to my friend, one spray can use for at least 3 sprays. but I still hope that I don't have chance to use it.
A kind of Han etiquette, YangWeiYi (Mandarin)
反思、塑造漢人威儀是華夏人文化的禮儀之一。
Think over the day, develop prestige of Han is one of the etiquette of Han.
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這種選美很有意思，雖然女人束髮髻看起來很“老”，很不時尚，金龍卻覺得十分的耐看和有氣質，你說呢？
Found the online Beauty contest.
It make sense for me, although women making the hair-bun style will be so old trend and look older, but personally I just like it, how about your feel about it?
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古代人是巨人。。。
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recent wall post which got 48k+ likes...
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黄明志，很久以来我都很仰慕你，你是唯一一个我会去留意你的动向的本地艺人。但这次，原谅我实话实说，你太过分了。你不是运动员，不知道什么是体育精神我能理解，但身为一个带把的，怎么会连基本的风度都欠缺？
网路速度是以秒计算的，你的言论歌词传到中国人的耳里，会引起多少中国人仇视鄙视大马人？你不会不知道你很红吧？
我祝你电影大卖，但我不会去看。
我相信Dato Lee 看到了你那个辱骂林丹的视频也不会再支持你。
你可以用任何方式让自己红，但请永远别忘记"礼貌＂这两个字。
慎言慎行，别让大马华裔因为你而蒙羞！
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