Sunday, August 8, 2010

Friend 朋友


朋友,是什么?在你人生里头,有多少个朋友呢?你有怎样的朋友呢?朋友在你生活里扮演怎样的角色呢?你是否可以没有朋友的过一生?
What is the Friend? How many friends you have in your life? What type of friend are them? What is the role of your friend in your life? Can you live without a friend?

说到朋友金龙就有深的感触,我觉得如果一生没有朋友,我将会少很多机会,学习的机会,成长的机会,见识的机会,突破的机会,毕竟在家里与学校的学习与见识范围是有限的,总觉得人长大后终会离开家,我不是说家里不好,请不要误会,只是家是不能永远给我们全部,无可否认在家外度过我们的大半的人生,人时机到了,我们就得成立自己的家。所谓: “在家靠父母,在外靠朋友”。人是不可能一个人活着。
I have strong feelings when I talking about friendship, I strongly agree that if I don't have friend in my life, I will losing a lot of chances, no matter learning, mentally grow, chance to explore, perhaps chance to breakthrough my life, after all the scope of education at home and school are limited, man will go out house to flight for his life one day, I don't saying home education not good, don't be misunderstand, just feel that home won't be give all we want forever, everyone will spend half of their life out of the home, when the time come, we got to have our own home and family.  One Chinese proverb said: "At home, we get support from parent; at outside, we get support from friends". Human couldn't live alone, from my point of view.

金龙本身觉得朋友是从两个人在一个巧合的机会相遇在共同的环境,一时同样的处境,一时同样的频道,双方的配合,一迁二就,一种奇妙的感情就建立了,就像上天给的一个机会,华人常说这种就是一种缘分。
Golddragon feel that friendship is start from two persons meet together, in the similar environment, situation, channel, tolerance for both side, it's kinda special and awesome relationship in the world, it link two persons who don't even have relate to each other before met, just like a faint, just like a arrangement from God.

在金龙有理智,有判断力的开始,到现今,不长不短,有十年多,朋友不多不少,
什么样的朋友都有,我也喜欢交朋友,让人生增添色彩,无论美丽或不美丽的色彩也好,七彩缤纷的世界就是每种颜色不分彼此的融在一起。
Since GoldDragon start to have intellect and sense of judge, until now, ten over years, a lot of friend I met, there are a lot a lot kind of friends, I like to met new friends, friend make life colorful,  no matter the color is bright or dark, but I believe the world only will be wonderful when the all the color reflex together.

记忆蒙蒙糊糊,我记忆里有很多种朋友。。。
Memory in my mind is too abstract, I do have a lots of type of friends,...


有些朋友只是知道名字,见面打下招呼,说说两句。
Some of friends they know your name, you know their name as well, talk few word when met, and no more than that.

有些朋友是你知道他们的名字,而他们都不大记得你。
Some of friends, you know them well, but they don't even remember you.
有些朋友是他们知道你的名字,而你都不大记得他们。
Some of friends, they know you well, but you seen like not know them at all.


有些朋友是因为要一起吃喝玩乐,就在一起了。
Some of friends mix together due to have fun together.
有些朋友是没有跟他吃喝玩乐,就没有在一起了。
Some of friends don't mix together anymore if you not going have fun with them.

有些朋友会因为某种兴趣,才谈得来。
Some of friends mix well when only talk about interest.

有些朋友是因为寂寞没人找时,才会去找对方的。
Some of friend only find each other when they are lonely.

有些朋友是因为有事要拜托事,才会找上门。
Some of friend only find you when they need your help.
有些朋友是因为有事要拜托他时,他就会关上门。
Some of friend will stay away from you when you need their help.

有些朋友是因为有某活动时,才会联络你。
Some of friends will keep in touch with you when the certain activity.
有些朋友是因为没有某活动时,就不会联络你。
Some of friends not even keep in touch with you when there is not certain activity.

有些朋友是有了新朋友后,就很少找你。
Some of friends will less met with when they have new friends.
有些朋友是你有新朋友后,你就很少找他。
Some of friends will be ignore by you, when you have new friends.

有些朋友会因为你有好的处境时,才会来找你。
Some of friends will come for you when you have good situation.
有些朋友会因为你在不好的处境时,就会避开你。
Some of friends will stay away from you when you have bad situation.

有些朋友会在他们有好处时,就会想起你。
Some of friends will thinking of you when they want to share something.
有些朋友会在他们正处在不好的坏境时,不会让你知道。
Some of friends will hidden of you when they want to share something.

有些朋友是因为开始要你买东西时,才开始接近你。
Some of friends only will start approach you when they got to sell you somethings.
有些朋友是因为你开始卖东西时,就开始疏远你。
Some of friends will start stay away from you when you doing sales.

有些朋友是你会有所保留的,你不会告诉你的现状。
Some of friends will make you hide from them, they not got to know how is your status.
有些朋友是对你会有所保留的,你是不会知道她他的现状。
Some of friends will hide themselves from you, you not got to know how is them.

有些朋友是你在他们面前会装很好,让他们感觉你很好。
Some of friend will need you to pretend good in front of them, let them know you are good although it's not.
有些朋友是你在他们面前会表露一切,让他们感觉你需要他们。
Some of friend , you can't hide something from them, you will let them know you need them.

有些朋友是你可以和他说全部事情,从芝麻小事到国家大事。
Some of friend can talk all thing with you, from tiny sand to everest.
有些朋友是千千万万都不可以说全部事情,不然就大件事。
Some of friend will making trouble to you if you tell them everything, perhaps only one thing.

有些朋友是可以发展到更亲密的地步,到知己,到生活伴侣。
Some of friends can be progress to close friend, even life partner.
有些朋友是可以发展到越来越生疏,变成陌生人,甚至变成敌人。
Some of friends can be progress to stranger, even enemy.

有些朋友交往越久越了解对方,到对方下一步要做什么都猜得到。
Some of friends will understand each other deeper when the time goes by, until they can know what you got to do next.
有些朋友越久越不了解对方,到对方做i什么事都被误解。
Some of friends understanding to each other become worst after all, until a tiny thing will cause misunderstand.

有些朋友见面不用说话,就可以让双方一点就通,就算没话讲也不尴尬。
Some of friends not need chat a lot, but they can understand the feeling of each other, even nothing to chat also won't causing embarrassing.
有些朋友见面很多话说,可是双方都不知道对方心里在想什么。
Some of friends talk a lots, but both side no even talk with real heart.

有些朋友可以什么都不用说,就给于你所需你的。
Some of friend will give you what you want, even without any request.
有些朋友不管你说了多少话,他也不会给你所需的。
Some of friends won't give what you want no matter how you request.

有些朋友见面,讲的都是客套话。
Some of friends meet face to face, but they won't talk real.
有些朋友没见面,讲的都是心里话。
Some of friends not meet face to face, but they communicate honestly.

有些朋友在你面前说好话,在你背后却说你坏话。
Some of friends talk good in front you but in opposite way behind of you.
有些朋友在你面前说坏话,但在你背后说你好话。
Some of friends talk bad in front you but in opposite way behind of you.

有些朋友你不怕烦到他,他也不怕烦到你,有事没事都可以找你。
Some of friends won't scare you making trouble to them, they also feel so to you, they will come to find you even nothing.
有些朋友你很怕烦到他,他也很怕烦到你,有事没事都不敢找你。
Some of friends very scare making trouble to him, same to you, so they not dare to find you.

有些朋友在无论你怎样烦他,他也不会不理你。
Some of friends will keep friend with you even you always making trouble to them.
有些朋友就算你不怎么烦他,他也觉得你烦。
Some of friends will stay away from you even you not making trouble to them.

有些朋友是不会教你东西,就算他们很会。
Some for friends won't teach you something although they really know well.
有些朋友会教你东西,就算他们不是很会。
Some of friends will teach you a lot even they really know.


有很多,很多,很多种朋友 ,恐怕三天三夜也写不完。。
There are a lot, a lot, of friends, it's endless to list down...
这些五花八门的个性里头,有没有在你平日见过的朋友的身上呢?
Among the list, did you found your friend's characteristic listed?

有时朋友会让我们开心兴奋,有时朋友会让我们伤心欲绝。。。
Some friends bring joy and happiness, some friends make endless sadness...'









朋友的观点在乐观的角度来看,其实都是一件好事,好的会让我们记忆美好的,不好的而会让我们学到无价的人生课程。
From the point of positive view, actually all of them are good, good friend make sweet memory, bad one let us learn invaluable humanity lesson.






当然我觉得交朋友是要用眼,耳,心去体会,判断应不应该跟随,应不应该继续,应不应该相信,毕竟世界无奇不有。
For sure, we should use our eye, ear, heart to judge weather the friend worth to follow, continue, believe,  because the world have vary of human.


相见既是缘,是先天早有安排;相处既是份,是后天双方造化。
Meet new friend is a type of fate, is arrange by God; mix with is one type of work, is depend on both.


你有多久没自动去找你的朋友了 ?或许有没有朋友己没有来找你?
How long the time you never automatically find your friend? or didn't you found that how long time a friend didn't find you already?


记得朋友是应该礼尚往来,不是单方面的,也不是等待。
Remember friendship is both side, no single side, also that is not waiting.



事物没有永存的,好的或坏的。
Nothing is forever, good or bad.
好友情是否应该好好地保留与珍惜?
Should we appreciate good friend?
不好友情是否应该彻底断绝不留余地?
So, Should we reject completely bad friend?

今天好友,明天敌人 ,后天好友,未来的事谁人能知,一切得看造化,随缘 。
Today friends, tomorrow maybe enemy, perhaps the day after tomorrow become friend again.
Who will know the future? all thing need depend on the workout and fate.

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